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Table of contents

  • What is a Trigger?
  • Common Types of Addiction Triggers
  • How to Identify Your Personal Triggers
  • How Triggers Can Lead to Relapse
  • What to Do When a Trigger Hits
  • What If a Trigger Leads to Relapse?
  • Frequently Asked Questions

What is a Trigger?

An addiction trigger is a person, place, situation, feeling, thought, or memory that can bring on cravings or an urge to use drugs or alcohol. Triggers can be internal or external, and they differ for everyone.

Common Types of Addiction Triggers

Triggers in addiction do not always look the way you might expect.

Sometimes they are obvious, such as being around people you used with. Other times, they can come from within, such as stress, loneliness, or a difficult memory.

Knowing the difference can make it easier to recognize your own patterns.

Internal vs External Triggers

Internal TriggersExternal Triggers
StressBeing around people who use drugs or alcohol
AnxietyPlaces associated with past substance use
LonelinessParties or social events where substances are present
AngerSeeing drugs, alcohol, or related objects
Shame or guiltCertain people or social groups
BoredomHolidays and celebrations
SadnessConflict with family, friends, or coworkers
CravingsA neighborhood or familiar location
Memories of past useA particular time of day or routine
FatigueWork, financial, or relationship stressors

A trigger does not automatically mean that someone will relapse. It may affect one person more than the other, which makes it important to understand triggers.

Triggers can also vary depending on the substance involved. For example, someone working through alcohol use may encounter specific drinking-related situations or social cues. If alcohol is the focus of your recovery, you can also learn more about drinking triggers and the situations that may increase the urge to drink.

Emotional Triggers

Emotional triggers can be especially difficult to recognize because there may not be an obvious person, place, or event causing them. Instead, a feeling can create an urge to use or make it harder to manage cravings.

Common emotional triggers include:

  • Stress: Feeling overwhelmed by work, responsibilities, finances, or other pressures.
  • Shame or guilt: Dwelling on past actions or feeling that you have disappointed yourself or others.
  • Loneliness: Feeling disconnected from friends, family, or your support network.
  • Anger: Conflict or frustration that feels difficult to manage.
  • Anxiety: Worry or nervousness that creates a desire to escape uncomfortable feelings.
  • Sadness: Difficult emotions or painful experiences that make substance use seem appealing.
  • Boredom: Having too much unstructured time or feeling like there is nothing meaningful to do.
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How to Identify Your Personal Triggers

You may not recognize every trigger immediately.

Research on relapse prevention has emphasized the value of identifying high-risk situations and understanding the factors that can contribute to them.

This can make it easier to recognize your own patterns and think about how you want to respond.

  1. Notice when cravings appear. Think about what was happening just before the urge began.
  2. Write down the details. Note where you were, who you were with, what you were feeling, and what you were thinking.
  3. Look for patterns. Certain people, places, emotions, routines, or times of day may appear repeatedly.
  4. Pay attention to changes in yourself. Stress, poor sleep, irritability, or withdrawing from others may affect how you respond to triggers.
  5. Talk it through with someone you trust. A therapist, counselor, sponsor, or another recovery support person can help you recognize patterns you may have missed.

The goal is not to avoid every difficult situation. It is to become more familiar with the situations and emotions that can make recovery harder for you.

How Triggers Can Lead to Relapse

A trigger does not necessarily lead directly to substance use. Relapse can involve changes in emotions, thoughts, and behavior before physical substance use occurs.

Research on relapse prevention has identified stress and cues associated with past substance use, such as people, places, and moods, as important factors that can contribute to renewed cravings and substance use.

Recognizing changes early can give you an opportunity to pause, use your coping strategies, and reach out for support before the situation progresses.

Disclaimer: Relapse does not always follow the same pattern for everyone, and experiencing a trigger does not mean that relapse will occur. If you or someone you know is in crisis, call or text 988 for the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

What to Do When a Trigger Hits

Knowing your triggers is useful, but knowing what to do when one appears is just as important.

Your response may depend on the type of trigger and what is happening in the moment.

1. Pause Before Reacting

Give yourself a moment between experiencing the trigger and deciding what to do next. A few slow breaths or simply stepping away can create some space to think.

2. Change Your Environment

If possible, move away from a person, place, or situation that is increasing your urge to use. Sometimes creating physical distance is the simplest way to interrupt the moment.

3. Name What You Are Feeling

Try putting the experience into words: I'm angry. I'm lonely. I'm overwhelmed. I'm having a craving. Recognizing what is happening can make it easier to respond intentionally rather than automatically.

4. Use a Grounding Technique

Bring your attention back to the present by focusing on what you can see, hear, feel, smell, or taste around you. Grounding can be especially useful when difficult thoughts or emotions feel overwhelming.

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5. Reach Out to Someone

You do not have to handle every trigger by yourself. Contact someone you trust, such as a sponsor, counselor, friend, family member, or another person in your recovery support network.

6. Plan for Situations You Know Are Difficult

If you already know that certain people, places, events, or times of day are challenging, think about your response before you encounter them. Having a plan can make it easier to act on it when the situation arises.

7. Learn How to Manage Cravings

Sometimes a trigger develops into a strong craving. Learning specific techniques for managing cravings can help you get through the urge without acting on it.

What If a Trigger Leads to Relapse?

A trigger does not mean relapse is inevitable, but returning to substance use can happen. If it does, reaching out for support is an important next step.

Rather than trying to handle the situation alone, consider contacting a sponsor, counselor, healthcare professional, or another trusted person in your recovery network.

Looking at what happened can also help you identify what made the situation difficult and what support you may need going forward. SAMHSA describes recovery as an ongoing process and notes that setbacks can be part of that process.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do triggers go away in recovery?

Triggers can change over time. Some may become less powerful as a person develops new routines and ways of responding, while new triggers may appear as circumstances change.

What should I do if I am triggered and feel like using?

Pause and give yourself some space before acting on the urge. Move away from the situation if possible, use a coping strategy, and reach out to someone in your recovery support network.

Can avoiding triggers prevent relapse?

Avoiding certain high-risk situations can be helpful, especially early in recovery, but it is not always possible to avoid every trigger. Learning how to recognize and respond to triggers can also be an important part of managing them.

Can a person have triggers without realizing it?

Yes. Some triggers can be subtle, such as a particular time of day, emotion, memory, or routine. Paying attention to what happens before a craving can help reveal patterns over time.

Can positive emotions be triggers?

Yes. Triggers are not always negative. Celebrations, excitement, confidence, or being around certain people can sometimes be connected with past substance use and bring up cravings.

Moving Forward in Recovery

Learning your triggers is one part of understanding your recovery journey. Having a stable environment and people you can turn to can also make it easier to navigate difficult moments.

If you are considering sober living in Los Angeles, talk with the Bridges team to learn more about our communities and what to expect.

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Table of contents

  • What is a Trigger?
  • Common Types of Addiction Triggers
  • How to Identify Your Personal Triggers
  • How Triggers Can Lead to Relapse
  • What to Do When a Trigger Hits
  • What If a Trigger Leads to Relapse?
  • Frequently Asked Questions
Sheldon Cohen

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Sheldon Cohen

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, #132609

Sheldon Cohen is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and mental health professional with nearly a decade of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate addiction, emotional challenges, and personal growth. His work is grounded in the belief that meaningful change begins with self-understanding and that lasting recovery often comes from addressing the deeper patterns that shape thoughts, behaviors, and relationships.

After earning his Master of Arts in Psychology from Phillips Graduate University, Sheldon built a diverse clinical background working with clients facing substance use disorders, anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship challenges...

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